or Not to Love?
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To Love or
Not to Love?
Have you ever
fallen in love with two different persons at the same time? Falling
in love with two different persons whom both have the same feeling
for you too? Well, there is actually nothing wrong with that. In
fact I would say that it is something very normal, sometimes even
falling for more than two persons for some.
We are afterall
human beings, creatures of great emotions. It is just natural for
one to develop a liking for the opposite sex, especially when the
both are getting along very well. Sometimes, it is just so hard
for us to control our feeling and nevertheless, it has always been
human nature to be greedy. It is always good to be able to have
the best of both worlds isn't it? But well, things are usually just
not possible. At the end of the day, you just have to make your
choice, to decide for yourself, your one and only love whom that
person to be.
To love or not
to love, it is your choice. Think of it this way. In our path of
life, we are always faced with choices. Choices that we have to
make decisions over; decisions that will affect our life. At circumstances,
even having to make immediate decision on the spot, decisions concerning
of life and death. Sometimes we made the right decision and sometimes
the wrong. But no matter what our decisions might have brought so
far; we accepted them, didn't we?
That is life.
There is not way the world is going to stop moving just for you.
To turn left or to turn right, to move forward or to turn back,
you just have to make up your mind. I should believe that you will
not choose to be stuck at the cross junction for your whole life?
Well, a game
of chances and uncertainties life has nevertheless always been.
If you never play you can never win. You have just got to make your
choice, to decide where to place your bet. You can of course choose
to give up, not to risk your bet. You always have your choice. Life
is just so full of choices, remember? But well, will you later regret
giving up that chance when you have it?
The same goes
for love. Between the both, you just got to decide whom you really
like more. Well, having choices is always better than not having
any at all, right? I should also believe that you are not going
to give up that chance of even placing your bet? I know it is going
to be hard but do just give yourself sometime. Follow where your
heart goes. Between the both, there is definitely one whom you will
actually like more.
Ok, just picture
this scenario; there are this two musical concert, both a once in
a lifetime concert. Missing it, you will never get the chance to
see it again. You have been dying to catch the shows all these while.
However for such a coincidence, they are been held at the same timing
on the same day. Again, I suppose you will not just give up the
chance of catching both shows altogether? Between the two, you will
definitely choose one right?
get to fully enjoy the show, which you had decided upon, you just
got to forget about that disappointment from missing the other show.
But well, more often than not, once you found yourself in the musical
concert, chances are you will be totally captured by that spectacular
ambience, enjoying yourself so much, totally forgotten about any
disappointment that you earlier had.
Now where we
are discussing about love, it is just the same. Many at times, we
just can't bear to give up on what we already have, struggling so
hard within ourselves. In the end, we might jollywell end up with
nothing at all. In life, we gain some we lose some. It's no use
holding on so hard to something, which you know will not come out
with anything. When you have to give up, you have to. When you have
to choose, you just have to.
Just like choosing
between the two musical concerts, follow where your heart goes.
Once you made up your mind, everything will just seem so much clearer.
Slowly, your path of love will reveal its way for you. Will it lead
to happiness for you? Well again, we wouldn't know. But if we never
try we will never know. At least, I should believe that you will
be much happier than to be still stuck at the cross junction, lost
world is not going to stop turning just for you. So is with love.
The two persons will not just keep waiting for you. Wishy-washy?
You might just end up with nothing at all.
come passing by twice, cherish it when you have it.
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