Tips: Work on The Similarities
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Tips: Dating Tips: Work on The Similarities
What is it that
makes you attracted to someone? The look? The character? The way
he or she makes you laugh? Well, that's a few possibilities. Now
let me ask you another question. What is it that you feel that makes
a couple go on a date together, dates after dates? Think about it.
Remember they have a choice of saying no to a date. Very simple,
there's something of similar liking between the both of them, something
which both enjoy doing together, over and over again.
this question, would you go on a date with someone whom doesn't
enjoy dining, watching movies, coffee at caf”– not a thing at all
of what you enjoy doing? For a couples to remain together, there
has got to be something similar between both. Similar liking, interest,
characteristic– The more the similarities there is between the both
of you, the better the chances of a development of a further relationship
there will be.
What are the
similarities between both that you can work on? First of all, the
physical appearance of course. Your physical appearance is the very
first thing that catches a person's eyes, the eyes of that special
someone. Take note of the type of dressing style he or she likes?
How is he or she normally dressed? A trendy and hip? Casual and
sporty? Smart casual? Try to dress so, dress in the style he or
she would like. Think about it, if you were someone who is very
concern with the neatness and cleanliness of your physical appearance,
would you like someone who is always so shabbily dressed? Naturally,
a person would tend to enjoy the company of another who generally
dresses similar to that of him or herself. Don't you find it so
within your usual group of click?
Next would be
the hobbies and interest. What sports does he or she like? Does
she play the piano? What type of movies does he or she enjoy watching?
Does she love animals, dogs? Does he love fishing? What flowers
does she like? Hmm– knowing his or her habits will be good too.
Where does he or she normally hang out? Does she hate crowded places?
How many cubes of sugar she like for her coffee? Does he hate shopping?
Well in simple, find out anything possible under the sun about him
or her. Not a clue where to start? Friends would be a good source
to start with
Ok guys, now
that you know what she likes, it's time to plan for a little nice
and enjoyable date with her. It's afterall still a guy's job to
ask the girl out, right? Notice I used the word "enjoyable" instead
of a nice and "romantic" date? Well, a date involves two persons.
To allow the chance for a further development of a relationship,
the chance for a next date, you have got to make her enjoy the date,
enjoy the time spent with you.
Take her to
places that she likes, serve her food that she enjoys eating. "Oh
medium cooked for the lady please–" Present her with flowers that
she likes. She will be so surprised and impressed by you. "Oh Rick,
how do you know that I love Pink Tulips? It's so sweet of you–"
Plan activities that she has always enjoyed. Watching a movie that
she likes at her favorite cinema? Bringing her to her favorite musical,
"Phantom of The Opera"?
Ha as usual,
me and my ideas again– Well, I know you can definitely plan for
yourself a more perfect enjoyable date. In simple, create a familiar
environment for her, a date that she will feel comfortable. Naturally,
she will enjoy herself, enjoy going out with you, having your company,
developing a further liking for you.
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