a Life Partner
by Candace Doyle
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I'm 35 years
old and ready to open my heart to a true partner. I have honored
myself in the past by leaving relationships that weren't right,
yet I wonder if my idea of how I think it is supposed to be is preventing
me from creating what I truly want. I don't want to settle. I met
a man recently and was very excited after our first date, but on
our 2nd date, he seemed more excited about the possibility of sex
than having a relationship. Do you have any insight that would give
me more peace in this part of my life? ~ Lisa
blessings to you precious one. It is important to not have too many
ideas about how a spiritual partnership should look. One cannot
know what is best for them and can only open up to allowing the
universe to partner them up with the right person. There is not
one particular person that is a soul mate to you. That is the bad
news. The good news is that most of the men on the planet could
be a soul mate to you when you truly become ready.
“To have the
relationship that you want, it is as if you become ripe and ready
to be plucked from being single, learning, growing, experiencing,
and questioning. You become ripe for relationship. At the same moment
that you become ripe, someone else on the planet will become ripe,
and your paths will cross.
“There are many
degrees of ripeness. You have crossed paths with some when you were
unripe and so were they, and yet there was an attraction drawing
you together. This was a process of learning and growing, so that
you could become ripened and ready for plucking. You are still in
that process and are very near to being ripe. It is now truly a
matter of making a very deep decision. ‘Now is the time, and I am
open and ready to do this.’ Then nothing will keep you from it.
Then you have to get out of the way and allow the universe to set
you up with the matching partner.
“It is one thing
to have a list of requirements, and it is another thing to have
faith in your Creator to match you up in full knowingness with the
right partner for you, the one who will give you what it is you
are truly seeking, which is growth, development, evolution, peace,
love, happiness, distress, challenge, and everything that will give
you your ultimate goal.
person will not be in the package you have anticipated or may have
issues that are very challenging. Perhaps that is the point, and
perhaps not. Do not take the next person who steps into your life
to be this life partner, but instead allow yourself to become fully
ready, fully ripened. When the time comes and this person steps
into your life, you will know it. You will not have doubts.
“There is much
that you are open to, and there are fears as well. It is important
to become willing to risk your worst fears and then find the freedom
on the other side. Examine your fears. Experience them. Try them
on. Share them with others. Learn to laugh at them. Play the game
of asking, ‘What is the worst that can happen; and when that happens,
what would be the worst that can happen?’ Take it to the end and
see that whatever happens is not the end of the world. It is just
something that happens.
“There are many
countless rewards in receiving a life partner. Countless does not
begin to describe it, and yet becoming a life partner is even richer.
That is the process you are in now. Continue this unfolding of yourself,
your heart, your mind, your fears, your dreams, and allow yourself
to truly become ready, truly become open, and to know that all good
things will be given to you as a result. You need not fear being
alone forever, yet that is one of your fears to examine. Many gifts
lay ahead of you, and it is important to be open to them so that
you do not miss them on your journey.
you precious one. Amen.”
by A Course in Miracles, Candace Doyle has been hearing and sharing
the Voice of the Holy Spirit within her as a discernible, conversational
Voice for over 10 years. Candace and her husband, DavidPaul, are
the authors of The Journey That Never Was, a guide to hearing God’s
Voice regardless of one’s faith, religion, or personal beliefs.
For more information, please visit their website at www.rightmindedness.com
Article Source: EzineArticles.com
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