- A Betrayal Of Trust
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- A Betrayal Of Trust
as old as man. In the past, flirting was viewed with disgust and
a flirt was considered out of tune with morality. But things have
A flirt is considered
"cool" and flirting is regarded as a 'legitimate' way to relieve
stress. The internet has magnified this.
Some web sites
promote what is called discreet flirting. Such web sites connect
men and women, married or single, and encourage members to go beyond
just friendship to something more intimate. These web sites openly
promote illicit sexual behavior and tell married people that cheating
on their partners is modern and smart.
these web sites and their promoters have a great following. Consequently,
flirting has grown from just an epidemic to a pandemic. No wonder
many marriages are failing!
can be further from the truth. The truth is, flirting is a betrayal
of trust. A flirt is not a good candidate for marriage Any love
relationship with a flirt is sure to hit the rocks Anyone who partners
with a flirt for love is partnering with failure
A flirt lacks commitment. A flirt cannot commit to you or anyone.
So, if you are serious about settling down and having a happy loving
mate to spend the rest of your life with, make sure that person
is not a flirt.
A flirt lacks
trust. A flirt does not understand the value of trust. He throws
it away for a few moments of pleasure. Flirting hurts its victims
badly. But the flirt doesn't give a damn about that. Now you see
why I say a flirt is a bad candidate for marriage.
beyond just a betrayal of trust. It wrecks marriages and causes
heartbreak. When the innocent partner finds out her spouse have
been cheating on her, things are never quite the same again. Trust
comes crumbling down and the relationship is at the verge of failure.
Just how important
is trust and commitment in relationships?
Well, I'll tell
you. Trust is everything. Without trust, there is little point in
having a relationship. Commitment, in real terms, is devotion to
one person, one love, one partner and just that partner. Commitment
engenders trust. Where commitment is lacking, trust disappears.
Would you trust
a man who tells you he's in love with you and only you but then
tells another woman exactly the same thing to get her to go out
with him? Most likely you won't. You know why? Simply put, he's
not committed to you alone. And so you can't trust him to protect
flirting is a blatant betrayal of trust. A flirt is a criminal.
marriages and indeed, any love relationship. Sure, having so many
women around you is fun. Every woman is unique in her own way. Your
wife is unique in her own way too. So, you may feel you can fool
around with the women so you get the best of both worlds, the best
of every woman's world.
few pleasurable moments in another woman's arms will ultimately
destroy your marriage. You will lose everything you've worked hard
worth the cost?
No, No, No.
Love your mate.
Stay with her. Commit to her. Do not betray her. Do not look at
another woman. Do not even fantasize about how life will be in another
woman's arms. Maintain, protect, and defend your commitment to your
Your mate will
love you for it. She will trust you. And your love will last forever.
You will live happily ever after. In the end, that is what counts.
©2006 Samson Itoje
Itoje is a seasoned author and relationship expert. He offers free
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