how you want to spin it, beautiful people are just that, beautiful.
However, to what degree does it play into you finding your perfect
most of us are engulfed by a blitzing media that sells everything
from lingerie to exotic cars with some gorgeous blonde or brunette
sitting next to it. An idea that if itís candy to the eyes,
it will sell to the general public more readily.
concept is hardly new and not far from the truth, how important
of a factor does it play in landing someone that you could see
yourself spending the rest of your days with?
be surprised how shallow many adults are!
of bypassing personality for the most part and simply sizing
up a prospects physical attributes for a potential long term
mate, can be nothing short of disastrous.
is the hurt in holding out until you find a perfect match. You
know, someone who has it all, personality, character, integrity,
dignity, compassion, accountability, compatability, aspirations,
notice I conveniently left out a flawless face, ideal smile,
and a drop dead body?
It is because
in a long term relationship, the heart, character, and integrity
will ninety nine times out of a hundred always win in the end.
me wrong, there are beautiful people who have the whole package,
brains and beauty. Although, they are not the easiest to find
and not the easiest to tame.
saying is, if a person knows they have the full gammut of qualities,
they know their marketability, so 'youíd better bring your A
game' if your going to spend time with them, is usually their
on the heart, intentions always come to mind. What intentions
does a person have as they travel through their respective life?
about others first, and then themselves, or do they want theirs
first? This is a poignant question anyone can ask themselves
as a soul search in order to gain additional perspective about
their heart so as to know the path they are travelling down.
this is a quality to look for when screening a panel of people
who you see have potential and peering through thin disguises
can become a learned, efficient art.
Would you pass up an opportunity to be with someone who is not
your ideal physical specimen but you know they would be the
perfect compliment to you and vice versa just to be with a less
compatible, more attractive person?
is what one should sort out before delving deep into a committed
relationship. Your honest intentions usually mean everything
to someone else and are the very hinge a single persons future
can depend on.
when understading intentions is not a viable option.
of the most beautiful people I have ever been around are some
of the least attractive to the eyes; their caring, selflessness,
attitude, and personality are impossible to overlook, leaving
the more attractive person 'somewhere in a cloud of dust on
a rural road in my mind.'
is like a beacon in the pitch dark where light is less than
sparse. It screams without saying a word!
good hearted intentions are like glimmering diamonds. Finding
them is not that hard if you know what your looking for. So
next time you come across a less than beautiful potential mate,
ask yourself, "is this person's inner beauty worth tossing away,
or did you just find a gem?"