Never to Say to A Guy
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Things Never to Say to A Guy
1. WHEN WILL
I SEE YOU AGAIN?
Youíll see him when you see him. If he wants to see you again, heíll
call. If not, next. You donít have time for anyone that doesnít
have time for you.
2. WHY DIDNíT
Thereís only one answer to this question: Because he didnít want
to!!! What youíre really asking is, ďWhy didnít you want to call
me?Ē Who knows!! There could be a lot of reasons, but you shouldnít
be sitting around wondering why. You should be out dating lots of
different guys and not worrying about ONE guy. Donít be so quick
to put all your eggs into one basket, because if they break, itís
a big mess!
If he wanted you to know where he was, heíd tell you. What youíre
really asking is, ďWhere you with another female that you like better
than me?Ē Your insecurity is showing, my dear. If anything, he should
be wondering where you were.
4. I LOVE
Youíre saying it in the hopes that heíll say it back, but what if
he doesnít? Youíll be devastated and probably feel foolish. Saying
ďI love youĒ is not going to speed things up if heís not ready to
say it back. So just cool it, and let him be the first to say it
when heís ready.
5. DID YOU
SLEEP WITH HER?
As long as heís not sleeping with her now, who cares? The past is
gone. Donít torture yourself (and him) with these thoughts. In this
case, ignorance really is bliss.
6. IíM PREGNANT.
In 2005, with all the birth control choices available, there is
no excuse for becoming pregnant, unless you want to be. You should
be using something and he should use a condom, every time.
IS THIS GOING?
Nowhere fast if thatís your attitude. Guys want someone fun and
easy to be with, not someone thatís constantly worrying about the
future. His actions or non-actions will tell you where itís going.
If itís going somewhere, youíll know it. If itís not, youíll know
8. WE NEED
This is the equivalent of, ďGo to the principalís officeĒ. Guys
know itís not going to be a fun conversation, so theyíre already
on the defense. If you need to discuss something, just casually
bring it up when the both of you are relaxed. Donít try to talk
to him when heís tired, stressed or trying to watch tv!
9. I HATE
Even if you do, itís totally uncalled for and un-lady like. If thereís
an issue, be mature enough to discuss it when youíre calm. If heís
breaking up with you, reacting with anger may make you feel better
temporarily, but itís best to remain calm and act unfazed. Heíll
wonder why youíre so cool about it and that may make him re-think
his decision. Always be pleasant during a break up. Do you want
to be known as the girl that goes psycho if someone breaks up with
her?? I didnít think so.
10. I DONíT
What youíre actually saying is, ďYou need to step up your game,
because I can see youíre up to something.Ē If he is up to something,
heíll just become even sneakier. Better to think smart and act dumb-itíll
be easier to get the evidence you need to confirm your suspicions.
is a dating and relationship expert, author, lecturer and host of
the TV Show "The Art of Love".
over 20 years experience on the relationship market, Lucia has dated
men of all nationalities in six cities, four countries and two continents.
Her practical know-how makes her the perfect candidate to dispense
relationship advice Ė after all, in almost every dating dilemma
she has been there, done that and lived to tell about it.
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