She Says "It's Too Late" ... by:
Kloudiia Tay IIng
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She Says "It's Too Late" ...
I received a
request to blog about my thoughts and sentiments on this. What does
it mean when a woman says"ˇ Its too lateˇ to a man? Is she
telling her man that she has given up hope?
that, doesnˇ•t it? Well, apparently it does have such a connotation.
And when a woman says itˇ•s too late, in a general sense, you can
take the words literally - meaning it is too late.
Usually a response
to certain action, word or behaviour by her partner, when these
3 words come out from your womanˇ•s mouth, to conclude that the
death sentence has been given seems too harsh and extreme, but it
may indeed reflect her intentions, especially if the circumstances
are grave enough.
A wife will
stop complaining about anything only when she has told you umpteen
times in the past, and you have chose to ignore them. As a husband,
do not think that you have won the battle by making your wife shut
up, because by shutting up, it also means that she already realised
no matter what else she says is no longer going to matter, to you
and most importantly to her. So, when she stops her complaining,
she also clams herself up, and hardens her heart.
If you by now
still do not realise the difference in her affections and behaviour
towards you, then you are in a way killing your own marriage.
How then can
you, as a husband or boyfriend, turn the situation around when she
says ˇ–? Itˇ•s too lateˇ¨? in response to you asking a question
or saying something that once used to matter a lot to her but no
longer is? Well, it depends on how much this person and this relationship
means to you. Itˇ•s still not too late, if her heart is not with
All it means
is you have to really spend alot of effort to make her open up again,
and to share with you what she really feels. Usually, it is not
the words she say that is the problem. For example, if your wife
says you have been spending too much on buying unnecessary things,
it doesnˇ•t mean she wants to control your expenditure. It probably
means she likes to be involved in the decision making of the buying
process, and maybe she too has some things sheˇ•s had her eyes on
but was putting on hold due to the family budget, and there you
are happily splurging?
to what she says. Listen harder to what she is not saying. And the
only way to find out is by asking her, gently. You may need to probe
many times before sheˇ•?@s willing to tell you, especially if she
has been attempting to communicate to you for thousands of times
and not getting any reciprocal attention. How to ask her so you
can find out the real answer? Well, secret is, appeal to her emotions
Women need to
feel secured, loved and appreciated. By taking care of her feelings
first before your own needs, you can be sure that she will reciprocate
much much more to your needs and give you even more freedom than
you can ever imagine.
Like I said,
itˇ•s never too late if she is not in love with someone else. All
it takes is lots of patience and love on your side to let her know
she is still the one you love the most and she is the most important
person in your life.
About The Author
Tay IIng is one of Singapore's pioneer in dating industry. The ex-owner
of her dating agency Two To Tango, she now devotes her time for
singles to have a successful dating life and couples to develop
loving and lasting relationships through her blog http://www.Kloudiia.com,
seminars and book.
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