Power of Foreplay
by Vivianne Lacrampette
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Power of Foreplay
of foreplay has been talked about often in almost every sex guide
on the planet. And yet, here we take a go at the subject again!
Are we crazy? Quite! Nevertheless, the kind of information available
in the free domain didn't really impress us, so we decided to do
a small write up for our dear readers!
In this two
part article we will tell you some ways to make your woman go crazy...
and maybe even have an orgasm before you touch her secret places!
Are we kidding? Not quite! But before all that it is important to
mention that the foreplay doesn't start neither by kissing the lips
nor by kissing the necks. It starts way before... at the moment
your woman is comfortable with you, when you have gotten to know
her some and are about to make a move. During our time we have seen
some disasters, like a man who is talking about the city drainage
and then decides to kiss the woman! Jeez! Get a life mate! But without
further ado, lets take a look at the first ten steps that are important
- Take a bath
and smell good. Nothing is worse than smelling sweat on a man,
no matter how sexy he is.
- Groom yourself
for the occasion. Dress nicely, look elegant and confident.
- Get to know
your woman a bit. At least know the basics of what she likes and
especially what she doesn't.
- Talk about
exciting things from the start. Not about weather, not about how
bad you feel; rather about things that make you feel good and
make her feel good. Make her laugh some.
- Always keep
a steady eye contact, and every now and then look at her most
gorgeous features and sigh to yourself, "Oh How Gorgeous Are Thee!"
And now lets
get down to business! Onto The Ten Ways to Excite Your Woman!
starts with words. Talk about something exciting, that will turn
her blood hot. Now that doesn't mean getting her angry! Some nice
topics are romantic spots, sea shore, mountains and flowers. But
you can choose any topic and make it hot! Tell her about something
in your life that really excited you, or if you know her well
enough, tell her an anecdote that will please her. If you don't
have one, make one! For instance something like "The other day,
I was watching this show on discovery about the disney rides.
And there was this one ride that they were talking about, you
know the roller coaster. It was really amazing. The way it would
go up and down, moving along at such a fast pace. Itwas really
exciting! Speed and thrills with that wee bit of fear, rolling
up instilling you with excitement, and then it would go down,
so that you could feel the air brushing against your face..."
The bolded words are where you should be laying emphasis.
- Actions can
speak even louder than words! While you are telling her the story
touch her lightly and move your hands. Move your hands like a
wave when you say Up and down and then bring your hands close
to her face when you talk about feel the air brushing against
your face. If you think you are comfortable enough, you can even
blow air just around her ears! But beware... around her ears,
making her hair move, not full in her face!
the conversation, touch her every so gently. Start invading her
private space. Now I said private space, not private places! A
slight touch on the elbow, remove a peck of dust from her hair,
or just hold her hands and massage them with your fingers.
- Now start
getting adventurous. If she is tired propose to massage her neck.
Or just pull her towards yourself and give her a hug just because
she said something nice. Start invading her private space even
- Now is the
time to tell her how gorgeous she is or compliment her on something
she is wearing. Before this time, you will just make her defensive.
But right now, she will know you are sincere because your eyes
have been telling it to her all through the evening! Tell her
how you like her deep eyes, and then ask her softly if you can
touch her face.
- Become more
cozy with her, touching and caressing her in non sexual places.
But don't lean over to kiss her... not just yet. Let her beg for
it. For instance just let your finger roll down her back, or caress
her shoulders. Even a slight rubbing on the knees can be sexy,
if you are gentle and soft enough.
- Your talk
should be getting more erotic now. That doesn't mean telling her
about your conquests, but just start using sexy words. If there
is something you feel, share it with her. Also, start talking
more softly, so that she has to be real close to understand. Start
whispering in her ears, making her a partner into your secrets.
But not the dirty secrets, not just yet!
- Now while
you are whispering, your mouth close to her ears, allow your lips
to touch them. Give her a soft kiss, more like a peck. Then move
back, allowing her to move into you. When she does, give her a
slightly longer kiss on her ears, and then say something funny
- Start moving
your hands all over her body, still leaving out her obvious pleasure
points. No touching her breasts for now! But her belly, her back,
her neck, her arms, her legs, her chin and her hair are good places.
- Start moving
your kiss downwards from her ear on to her neck, but don't start
eating her neck! Just soft and tender kisses. So soft that she
has to lean into you to feel them! And now be patient for the
next part of this article!
These are of
course suggestion, to give you a basic idea. There are loads of
things that you can do following these basic principles!
Lacrampette is the inhouse dating expert for The Love Times www.lovetimes.net.
She writes frequently on seduction and dating techniques. For more
of her work, please check out her website The Love Times.
can email her at: firstname.lastname@example.org
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