by Bonnie Moss
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Sex is what
brought us here. Without sex, you and I won't be here.
There is nothing
cheap or dirty about sex. It is the attitude towards sex that makes
it degrading, sinful ,and dirty .Sex can be beautiful and precious.
It fulfills the function of procreation, it could also be a means
to commit the most heinous crime.
It is important
not only to be aware of our sexuality.We need to acknowledge its
importance as a factor for a balanced life. It is the fire that
keeps the flames of romance aglow, the strong fiber that knits a
relationship together against all odds. It is refreshing, it is
healing. Respect for sex add meaning to our human existence and
We treat with
reverence those things we hold dear to our hearts. Activities that
we enjoy leave us with that sense of accomplishment, of satisfaction,
and make us feel good.
Music is considered
the language of the soul. Who does not enjoy music? It is one of
the great pleasures mankind has discovered. There are as many tunes,songs
and music as there are performers ,composers and song writers.
Sex is an integral
part of human existence.The expression of sex has many faces, strikes
many chords, creates a variety of tempo, of harmony or dis-harmony.
Who does not
admire beautiful and awesome surroundings; seek and welcome serenity
and tranquility, away from the frenzy of the world. Expression and
wholesome atmosphere create and inspire the moment for the ultimate
experience of Sacred Sex.
We do not subscribe
to the same type of music, but generally, there must be something
in the music that stirs the soul; a melody that promotes a certain
mood, a tune that softens or excites the psyche. Listening to music
is soothing, it is inspiring, it quietens a cluttered mind.
No human activity
but sex can elevate the soul, the human spirit to ecstasy, out of
the physical realm into a world only the two physical bodies can
experience.It is not the "quickie", not the one in the backseat,
or any isolated dim spot that is available at the moment.
Anyone who has
been to a concert, a recital, or attended a symphony, knows these
events need planning. Sex is like attending one of these events.
To fully enjoy it, set aside the time , the resources needed , plan
the when and the how will naturally follow. It is not an event we
attend to everyday. It is a special occasion we look forward to
with anticipation. Of course,spontaneity adds pizzazz.
Why not a sacred
time for sacred sex? For anyone who is interested to learn more
about the "How to", the resources are limitless- read up on Tantric
Sex or get a copy of the Kama Sutra.
But, no matter
how much information you read on sex, if the attitude to elevate
it to something sacred is not there, it would be difficult to experience
the bliss, the ecstasy and the sense of fulfillment only sacred
sex can offer.
a very personal matter, so is the experience.
There is music,
and there is music. Some people enjoy the singer who belts out the
words, in constant gyration or movement. They see the singer, do
they hear the song? There are others who are quite content with
the blues, or country tempo, some go for ballads, but, there is
always room for the appreciation of the music of the great masters.Do
not mistake it for the elevator music.Many great music have "popular
hits" versions that appeal to most. Take Beethoven's Fifth, Chopin's
Nocturne in B Flat ( To Love Again), Mozart's Eich Nacht Music (
Twinkle, Twinkle Little Star).
Sacred sex is
like attending a symphony- the orchestra and all its sections play
their part, the percussion, the wind instruments, the strings.
What does these
have to do with sex? When elevated to the highest form that it can
be, every single part of the human body can be tuned up like the
sections of the orchestra, to produce that haunting, enjoyable ,
uplifting and satisfying music.
Listen to some
good music, it's not all one beat, one, chord, one tone. Observe
the adagio, enjoy the cantabile, the sweetness of the dolce, then
get exhilarated as the orchestra progresses to forte, fortissimo,
con anima, then...it starts to slow down, go into ritardando, some
endings maybe soft or bombastic, but always passionate. Notice that
after each performance of the symphony,there are seconds of quiet,
when you hear not a sound, until the maestro takes his bow.
time together , without interruptions to get to know each other.It's
a special night, without the children, and no telephone. It is time
together,to immerse in each otherís love, where they experience
the ecstasy of being ONE.
Two souls are
able to reach out into the depths of each other's being during moments
of intimacy. It is difficult to interpret most work of art, and
feel the passion of the artist, understand what was on his mind
while creating his work.
Music is different.
The performer has the freedom to express the inner stirrings within
the soul, with passion that radiates through the performance, filters
to the spectators, and enjoy the transformation to a different world
and savor the peace within the soul .
In sacred sex,
it helps to understand the human anatomy, to fine tune all these
parts, yes, from head to toe, to stir the most passionate, ecstatic
and blissful act.
When two souls
are able to reach this state of oneness, savor it, and respect it.
That is sacred
Moss writes about spirituality, tools available to all to walk the
path. Visit her website, a metaphysical site that offers information
on tarot, crystals, aura, journalling and related topics.
various articles are published on high-end e-zines. She offers guidance
and coaching through tarot. You can visit her at: www.goldencupcafe.tripod.com
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