by Al Link
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The next time
you’re at a party and there’s a lull in the conversation rather
than trying to fill the gap with your knowledge of sports statistics,
sitcom trivia or movie tidbits wow your listeners with this amazing
array of info on everyone’s favourite subject: SEX!
Mighty Mr. Willie
There’s a great
variety in the size of flaccid penises, but there’s less difference
when they’re hard because smaller penises enlarge more during erection.
The average length for a fully erect penis is 15 cm (about 5 ¾”).
Ninety percent of men’s pleasure poles measure between 13 and 18
cm (5 - 7”).
the shortest and longest fully functional penis are a tiny 1.5 cm
and a whopping 30 cm!
If you feel
the need to see how you measure up first get an erection then, while
standing, angle your penis straight out from your body. Extend a
ruler from your pubic bone just above the base of your penis out
to its tip and count the inches.
are no muscles in the penis that affect size, exercise doesn’t do
anything to make your penis bigger. There are techniques for enlargement
but they involve serious surgery and can have very unpleasant side
effects or complications. No matter what the advertisements say
no creams or ointments will help him grow at all
the way your equipment stands? There’s no need to be, 25% of all
penises bend in some direction. Even when erect some bend downward.
million sperm are produced daily by a healthy, fertile man. On ejaculation
between 5 to 15 ml (1 teaspoon to 1 tablespoon) of semen is released,
containing about 300 million sperm.
When a man climaxes
the muscles at the base of his penis contract approximately every
0.8 seconds, expelling semen in up to 5 exquisite spurts.
to their penises men have other highly erotic parts of their bodies.
One is the male ‘g-spot’ or more accurately ‘p-spot’ - for prostate
gland. Stimulation of this spot, either externally through the perineum,
the skin between your anus and testicles, or internally through
the anus can result in extremely pleasurable sensation, including
term for blue balls is epididymitis, an inflammation of the epididymis,
which is in the scrotal sac and where sperm mature. In simple terms
blue balls occurs when the epididymis get blocked up with sperm
that have left the testis but not the penis. The vas deferns are
the conduit for the sperm from the testis to the urethra. When they
get blocked you get pain. You can usually relieve this by ejaculating.
average between 8 - 10 cm in length, about 3 - 4 inches. This expands
during intercourse. Including her clitoris, vaginal lips and internal
spongy tissue a woman has just about as much erectile tissue as
a man, but most of it is inside her body.
At least 70%
of women don’t reach an orgasmic climax through intercourse alone,
so remember to pay lots of loving attention to her most sensitive
genital spot - the clitoris.
of the ‘G-spot’, a small area on the upper inside of the vaginal
wall about 1 ½ to 2 inches back from the vaginal opening, some women
ejaculate through the urethra. One to two ounces of clear, odourless
fluid are expelled in a glorious gush.
At birth a woman’s
ovaries contain up to 2 million immature eggs. After the onset of
menstruation 1 egg matures every month and is released into the
vagina just waiting for those millions of sperm to come fertilize
it! Sperm can survive in the vagina for 3 to 5 days.
can’t travel internally from the rectum to the vagina, technically
it’s not possible to become pregnant through anal sex. But beware,
after intercourse semen can leak from the anus and drip down to
the vagina resulting in ‘splash’ conception. Of those who use anal
sex for birth control, every year 8% end up pregnant!
round, pointy, no matter what their shape, men just seem to love
women’s breasts. Mammaries are as diverse as the women they sit
so prettily on, but here’s some general guidelines:
- It’s perfectly
normal for a woman to have breasts that are different sizes, just
as her hands and feet differ slightly in size.
- When a woman
is aroused her breasts swell by up to 25% and her nipples may
become very hard.
- Many women
have hair around their nipples.
- About 10
percent of women have inverted nipples.
- Breasts are
mostly fatty tissue which isn’t very sensitive to caresses and
kisses. However, because the nipple itself and the area surrounding
it (the areola) are full of nerve endings they’re very sensitive
- Men also
have many sensitive nerve endings in their nipples and can become
very excited by nipple kisses, sucks and twirls.
surveys by condom company Durex, the worldwide average for making
love is 106 times per year. Canadians fit right in with the ‘norm’,
hitting the sheets at an annual rate of 105 times or about twice
a week. That puts us behind the French - 141, Americans - 138, Russians
- 131, Australians, Brits and Germans - all at 112, and the South
Africans and Poles - 109. But ahead of Mexico - 102, Italy - 92,
Spain - 82, Thailand - 80 and Hong Kong - 57.
Every day lovemaking
occurs about 120 million times around the world, resulting in 910,000
is the favourite time for Canadians to have sex and most North Americans
do it at 10:34 pm.
lack in frequency we make up in stamina. With an average lovemaking
time of 22.7 minutes we place second behind the Americans who carry
on for 28.1 minutes. Of that time thrusting intercourse lasts between
6 to 10 minutes.For most Canadian couples foreplay lasts an average
of 12 minutes
All By Yourself
95% of men masturbate,
compared to 70% of women.
start having sex slightly earlier than most. While the global average
at which sexually active 16-21 year olds first had sex is 15.9 years,
Canadians jumped in at an even 15 years. First Time Satisfaction
While we might
be starting younger we may be enjoying it less. 37% of young Canadians
indicate that first time sex was more disappointing than they expected
while only 19% indicated it was much better than they’d hoped.
74% of young
Canadian lovers used some form of contraception the first time they
had sex. While 58% used condoms and 16% used other methods a much
too large 26% didn’t use any type of protection!
Was it Good
On the whole
young Canadians are fairly generous lovers, with 64% of women and
65% of men putting their partner’s sexual satisfaction before their
the top two fears related to sexual activity for young Canadians
are fear of unwanted pregnancy - 21% and fear of contracting HIV
or other STDs - 44%. But despite these concerns more than one third
say that fear of HIV has not changed their sex life.
More than 40
percent of women and 30 percent of men suffer from some type of
sexual difficulty such as no interest in sex, inability to achieve
orgasm, painful intercourse, or premature ejaculation.
About 25% of
men come before they want to, or before their partners want them
to. For men under 40 premature ejaculation is the most common sexual
problem. The good news is that by strengthening their genital muscles
with Kegel exercises and by practicing building up to a climax through
masturbation and then stopping to rest and building up again and
stopping to rest and building up again and so on– most men can learn
to last much longer!
Link and Pala Copeland own and operate 4 Freedoms Relationship Tantra.
They regularly host Tantra Sacred Loving weekends near Ottawa Canada,
and weeklong retreats in exotic locations around the planet. For
more information call toll free from Canada or USA: 1-800-684-5308
International long distance: 1-819-689-5308. Visit their website
or send email: firstname.lastname@example.org
Their book, Soul Sex: Tantra for Two, is published by New Page Books,
little journal of love is now available for your free download.
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