by Kris Player
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You get her
number, set up the date, take her out, and get her to come back
to your place for "a few drinks". You are sitting on the couch kissing
and fooling around with her, but after a while she says "It's getting
kind of late... I've better get going". Being the gentleman that
you are, you respect her wishes and show her out, even though you
are pissed beyond belief... and stuck with a severe case of blue-balls.
The reason why
this happens to many men is because of a lack of the proper stimulation.
If you want to turn "It's getting kind of late... blah blah blah"
into "One more time before I leave for work" you must stimulate
her mind and body, starting with her mind first. Men are most aroused
by what we see, for example... a nice ass. Women are most aroused
by what they hear, so one of the best techniques any player can
use in these critical situations is "talking dirty". Telling a woman
what you are going to do to her before you do it will make her much
more aroused than actually performing the act, which is the exact
opposite with men... we want to see and feel it, not hear it.
Women love foreplay,
and the more that you tease her the less chance you have of her
leaving or stopping your progress... as long as your teasing is
performed properly. Always take things slow and never make any sudden
movements, the idea is to move your hands and body slow and smooth
while maintaining fluid motion; don't do one thing for too long
because this will give her time to think, and I can guarantee some
of the first things that will pop into her head are "I've only known
this guy for..." and "What will my friend's think", which are obviously
not in your best interest. The trick is to keep things happening
faster than her mind can keep up, because if her mind is given even
a few moments without the need to concentrate on what she is doing,
she will begin to think about the current situation and may have
to keep talking, and always keep the conversation sexual. If you
let the topic of discussion drift to something non sex-related then
you are screwed, and not the way you were hoping. Whisper your comments
into her ear and kiss her ear while your at it, the ear is one of
the best spots to kiss a woman to get her in the mood and keep her
that way. If you are kissing her body, always work your way back
to her mouth every-so-often, and each time make your kissing more
her tits. Feel them for a few seconds, kiss them for a few seconds,
and quickly move down below. Any stimulation you can provide to
her breasts will not be sufficient to get her ready for sex, so
they should only be given a small amount of attention. You can even
forget about them all together, and if she has small breasts she
will most likely be happy that you did.
happens (before you sit down) you should always remove any rings/watches/bracelets
that you have on so you can slip your hand down into her pants quickly
without anything getting "hooked". Forget about her belt and unbuttoning
her pants, you can get your hand down there without doing any of
that... trust me. If you waste time attempting to undo that stuff
she may stop you by grabbing your hand and shaking her head no.
You can do all of that later because once she is aroused enough
none of it will matter anymore.
got your hand down her pants it's a done deal (assuming that you
know what & where a clitoris is).
P.S. Be safe
and wear condoms! Get some for free at FreeCondoms.com
written Kris Player, the founder of Becomeaplayer.com
known only as The Player.
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